I believe the important essential needs of growing into an independent adult should be incorporated into a student’s lessons and they have a huge impact on the person they become later in life.
The need to use control and be humble is very essential to cover in our lessons with children. As the child becomes responsible for their actions, there is a resilience in their image that others note when they encounter them. This creates maturity that is needed later in life and daily as the child grows up. Honesty is essential to strive for and it is also good to point out to reward them for this and this shows the child how important it is, to be honest. I think they will continue this practice if they are shown how important it is to us to see that they are honest and trustworthy. Trust is a building block in every good and lasting friendship along with being a loyal person. These together form a bond that leads to true love and lasting relationships.
As these traits become developed in their personality, it prepares them for their adult life with others and sharing becomes natural as a trait in their personality.
Self-control helps them to restrain from impulses later in their lives and also lets them avoid poor choices. Saying “no” to a child will help to develop this self-control. A parent and a teacher must mean it when they say no. This shows the child that they don’t always get what they want and prepares them for this fact later in life.
Children need to understand that actions have consequences and that the lack of self-control can cause undesirable results. They must do what is required in their classes to reach their goals without acting out and causing disruptions. It is important to establish priorities and stick to them. It is important to complete lessons before play. Recreation can serve as a reward for completing their lessons.
Self-control has better outcomes. Remaining calm while dealing with displays of anger can help in this process; however, it can prove to be very difficult if the behavior keeps happening and is not addressed by all the adults involved in the child’s life.
Giving the child an assigned area to think about these unwanted actions and also to reflect on what has occurred between them and others involved seems to work in my experience if this is practiced each time the child acts out against using self-control.
Being respectful to others in the classroom and their teacher should always be stressed. A teacher must be firm with the rules of the classroom and address those students immediately that are not following them and redirect them to follow the classroom procedures. If not, most likely, the whole classroom will become a disorganized mess.
Do not let students become arrogant and think the rules don’t apply to them. They should not think they are special or rather that they do not need to follow these guidelines because they don’t in other places. They must acknowledge that there are limitations in the classroom and they must be humble and respectful at all times.
Learning to be humble, will help the child both now and in the future. Avoid misleading maxims when speaking with children. Always stress reasonable goals and how it is important to work towards these to achieve them. Encourage children to apologize when they are wrong and hurt others. Stress to speak to others in a positive manner and to be appreciative when they are with other students in a classroom setting. A grateful spirit is wonderful in our world. This is better than being jealous and thinking one is superior to others around them. Building on these skills can be a building block in humanity and is essential to our natural world around us.
Expect the child to help out daily. Duties daily will help them grow and be responsible. These should be completed before playtime. Emphasize how important it is to help out around the house and the classroom. This develops respect and encourages the child to be more mature and to have a positive identity in their community.
A resilient person bounces back after dealing with obstacles. Disappointments will be overcome with only occasional setbacks. Corrections are vital to learning in a child’s life. They need to understand what are the facts and how to deal with failures. Confidence is built as they overcome them. It is important to teach the child how to gain perspective on what has occurred. The child’s strategy will improve as this is addressed. The child will take charge of the problem and will not play the victim. Avoid fixing problems for them, instead help them to form a plan to solve it. Life is often unpredictable. As a parent, we protect our children from danger. But, we can’t always shield them from all that takes place in our world.
Constructive criticism is not bullying. It is guidance when it is needed for a positive change to take place. Teach the child to accept corrections so the child can learn. The benefits will come from this and they will not be miserable just because they were corrected. The benefits will appear in their new behaviors. They will learn from it and be happy in the end with what occurs because of it. Balance is needed and it reaps many positive improvements. Teaching in this manner is beneficial to their development. Errors in judgment have to addressed and corrected to overcome and be resilient.
Being responsible in life is being involved and completing tasks. A child’s capable cooperation begins with teaching. Cultures and parenting are involved in this learning process. Be eager to teach this lesson. Assigning chores and tasks to complete can help to nurture this process. Place value on the completion and always address how much it is valued by others and the community.
Adult guidance is essential to a child’s development. Interaction with the child is a fulfilling role. Teachers are often interacting with children to fill an empty void and also to mentor them. Instruction and guidance are so important. Grandparents are an important asset in a child’s life. Viewpoints, experiences, and influence come from family relatives. It also forms a child’s attitude and behavior. Major influences can provide strength and advantages in the long run. Learning to listen to elders can be so beneficial. Mentors can provide knowledge, natural inclinations, and the ability to be a leader. Peers in a child’s life will benefit from this respect and these values. Valuing adult guidance is very important and makes a teacher’s job go more smoothly.
Moral values are very important to teach and address in the classroom. Children that encounter distorted messages and morals can see this influence as a way of life. They become confused between right and wrong. They will accept media pressures as a good influence even if they are not to be considered a true source. Consistent teaching must involve the stressing of morals in life. A child must develop a conscience and a sense of logic. Honesty is essential and crucial. Commend good behaviors in the classroom. Correct bad behaviors daily and address them with discussion. Then, the child will develop correctly and they will value the morals gained by these teachings. Discuss the differences with the children in the classroom. Moral codes are part of their identity if they taught well. Comment on good behaviors as well as bad. Compare the two and address what should happen. Adhering to good values brings benefits. A value system is a matter of good teachings.
Do not let abusive speech patterns be present in the classroom. Actions and words need to be addressed when they are not positive or correct. A path of guidance can be so essential to children in a learning environment. The adoption of values is crucial. Clearly, training begins with the right principles provided and the correct influences apparent in life. Consistent teaching brings forth positive behavior. I enjoy teaching in this manner and seeing the results in my youth in the classroom.